குழந்தைகளின் உலகம்...

#குழந்தை வளர்ப்பு

குழந்தைகளின் உலகம் மிகவும் அழகானது. அன்பினால் உருவானது.அவர்களுக்கு நடைமுறை வாழ்வின் சட்ட திட்டங்களும், நுணுக்கங்களும் தெரியாது.அவர்களை கையாளும்பொழுது, மிகுந்த “பொறுமையும்,பேரன்பும்” மிக அவசியம்.அதற்கு நாம் பல தகுதிகளை வளர்த்துக்கொள்ள வேண்டும். அதில் மிக சில;

1. நமது உடல் மற்றும் மன ஆரோக்யம்
2. எதிர்பார்ப்பில்லாமை.
3. அன்பின் மொழி கொண்டு பேசுங்கள்

நமது #ஆரோக்யம் :

நமது மன ஆரோக்யம் மற்றும் உடல் ஆரோக்யம் சிறப்பாக இருக்க வேண்டும்.அதனை பேணுவதால் “பொறுமை” என்னும் செல்வத்தை நாம் பெற முடியும்.

எதிர்பார்ப்பில்லாமை:

குழந்தைகள் நாம் சொல்வதை உடனே புரிந்து கொண்டு,நடந்து கொள்ள வேண்டும், நாம் சொல்வதையெல்லாம் ஏற்றுக்கொள்ள வேண்டும் என்ற எதிர்பார்ப்பு தவறு. அவர்கள் நம் வழியாக பிறந்திருக்கலாம்.அதற்காக அவர்கள் சுதந்திரம் அற்றவர்கள் என்று கூற இயலாது.அவ்வாறு கூறுவதும் எதிர்பார்ப்பதும் நமது மடமையே. நம் கட்டளைகளையெல்லாம் புரிந்து கொண்டு செயல்படுவதற்கு அவர்கள் கணிப்பொறி அல்ல, நம்மைப் போன்றே அவர்களும், சுதந்திரத்தை விரும்பும் சுதந்திர மனிதர்கள் தான்.

அன்பின் மொழி கொண்டு பேசுங்கள்:

குழந்தைகளின் உலகம் அன்பினால் உருவானது.அவர்களிடம் அதிர்ந்து பேசலாகாது.மனம் வாடி வெதும்பி விடுவார்கள்.கண்டிப்பு அவசியம்தான்.அதை எப்பொழுது ப்ரயோகப்படுத்த வேண்டும், எவ்வாறு ப்ரயோகப்படுத்த வேண்டும் என்ற வித்தை தெரிந்து இருக்க வேண்டும்.பூ வினை பறிக்க கோடரி பயன்படுத்தலாமோ?.குரலில் மென்மையும், உள்ளத்தில் அன்பும், புத்தியில் தெளிவும், குணத்தில் பொறுமையும் கொண்டு, அவர்களிடம் உரையாட வேண்டும். நமது குரலின் த்வனியும், முக பாவனையும் மிக முக்கியம். குழந்தைகள் அதை மிக முக்கியமாக கவனிப்பார்கள்.குரலில் இனிமையும், முகத்தில் கனிவும், உள்ளத்தில் பேரன்பும் இருப்பது அதி முக்கிய தகுதி. மொத்தத்தில், அன்பின் மொழி கொண்டு பேசுங்கள்.

அனைத்திற்கும் மேலாக, அவர்கள் நம்மை திருத்த இறைவனால் அனுப்பப்பட்டவர்கள். நமது கோபம்,பொறுமையின்மை,சுய நலம், தியாகமின்மை, திமிர், விட்டுக்கொடுக்காத தன்மை, போன்ற பல தீய குணங்களை சரி செய்ய இறைவனால் நம் வழியாக அனுப்ப பட்டவர்கள். இதனை உணர்ந்து நடந்தால், பேரழகு கொண்ட அன்பின் உலகத்தை ஆனந்தமாக அனுபவிக்கும் தகுதி நமக்கு வந்து விடும்.

என்றும் அன்புடன்,

சிவ. செந்தில் ஆறுமுகம்.

KAALA BAIRAVAASHTAKAM

                             காலபைரவாஷ்டகம்

தேவராஜ ஸேவ்யமாந பாவநாங்க்ரி பங்கஜம்
வ்யாலயக்ஞஸூத்ர மிந்து ஸேகரம் க்ருபாகரம் |

நாரதாதி யோகி ப்ருந்த வந்திதம் திகம்பரம்
காஸிகாபுராதிநாத காலபைரவம் பஜே ||

பாநுகோடி பாஸ்வரம் பவாப்தி தாரகம்பரம்
நீலகண்ட மீப்ஸிதார்த்த தாயகம் த்ரிலோசனம் |

காலகாலமம்புஜாக்ஷ மஸ்தஸூந்ய மக்ஷரம்
காஸிகாபுராதிநாத காலபைரவம் பஜே ||

ஸுலடங்க பாஸதண்ட பாணிமாதி காரணம்
ஸ்யாமகாயமாதி தேவ மக்ஷரம் நிராமயம் |

பீமவிக்ரமம் ப்ரபும் விசித்ரதாண்டவப்ரியம்
காஸிகாபுராதிநாத காலபைரவம் பஜே ||

புக்திமுக்திதாயகம் ப்ரஸஸ்த சாருவிக்ரஹம்
பக்தவத்ஸலம் ஸ்திரம் ஸமஸ்தலோகவிக்ரஹம் |

நிக்வணந்மநோக்ஞ ஹேமகிங்கிணீ லஸத்கடிம்
காஸிகாபுராதிநாத காலபைரவம் பஜே ||

தர்மஸேது பாலகம் த்வதர்ம மார்கநாஸகம்
கர்மபாச மோசகம் ஸூஸர்மதாயகம்விபும் |

ஸ்வர்ணவர்ணகேஸ பாஸஸோபி தாங்கநிர்மலம்
காஸிகாபுராதிநாத காலபைரவம் பஜே ||

ரத்நபாதுகா ப்ரபாபி ராமபாதயுக்மகம்
நித்யமத்விதீய மிஷ்ட தைவதம் நிரஞ்ஜநம் |

ம்ருத்யு தர்பநாஸநம் கராலதம்ஷ்ட்ர பூஷணம்
காஸிகாபுராதிநாத காலபைரவம் பஜே ||

அட்டஹாஸ பிந்நபத்மஜாண்டகோஸ ஸம்ததிம்
த்ருஷ்டிபாத நஷ்டபாப ஜாலமுக்ரஸாஸநம் |

அஷ்டஸித்தி தாயகம் கபால மாலிகாதரம்
காஸிகாபுராதிநாத காலபைரவம் பஜே ||

பூதஸங்க நாயகம் விஸாலகீர்த்தி தாயகம்
காஸிவாஸலோக புண்யபாப ஸோதகம்விபும் |

நீதிமார்க கோவிதம் புராதநம் ஜகத்பதிம்
காஸிகாபுராதிநாத காலபைரவம் பஜே ||

காலபைரவாஷ்டகம் படந்தியே மநோஹரம்
ஞானமுக்தி ஸாதகம் விசித்ரபுண்ய வர்தநம் |

ஸோகமோஹலோப தைந்யகோபதாப நாஸநம்
தேப்ரயாந்தி காலபைரவாங்க்ரி ஸந்நிதிம்த்ருவம் ||

GOOD & EVIL

Is there such a thing as evil in the world? If not, how does one account

for the atrocities committed both at the individual and the collective levels?
Answered by, His Holiness,Sri Swami Dhayanandha Saraswathi:
Evil cannot be a force. If it were, then we would have two opposites—a divine
force and an evil force, both of which would have to be resolved into another
Almighty. We would therefore have to create another force in which both of these
forces existed.
If we analyze evil, we find that it is, after all, within free will itself. There is no
other evil. For instance, we cannot say a person is evil. Evil is only the abuse of
one’s free will. Abuse of free will is possible only because the will is free,
meaning that there is choice in one’s actions. Therefore, behind every evil action,
there is an abuse of free will. This is something we have to accept.
There is, then, no such thing as an evil force opposed to éçvara the Lord. Some
people, because they imagine an evil force as something that we come under the
influence of, think that we should join éçvara and fight against the evil. This
suggests that éçvara is helpless in the face of this so-called evil force.
If all that is there is éçvara, the Lord, where is evil? The only evil is ignorance.
Free will itself is not evil. Because there is ignorance of the fact that there is only
éçvara, a second thing comes and, once a second thing comes, there is fear. When
fear is there, greed is there and when greed is there, evil force will also be there.
Evil and the abuse of free will exist because there is no understanding of dharma,
the order that is éçvara. This lack of understanding can be at the individual level
and at the collective level, also. If ten egos join together, they become one ego—a
collective ego. Then, there is a collective use or abuse of freedom. In all large
scale genocides, mass murders and colossal exterminations, there is a collective
abuse of freedom.
One’s karma can also be a consideration here. But once we say there is an abuse
of free will, we cannot bring in karma. This would be like saying that it is
someone’s karma to be murdered and the murderer is helping the person to fulfill
his or her karma. No one is going to commit homicide to fulfill someone else’s
karma.
There is definitely, however, such a thing as a collective use and abuse of free will
because there is a collective ego, a collective entity. There is a community ego,
religious ego, a group ego, a corporate ego—meaning a huge ego—and a national
ego. The national ego of a particular nation can abuse its collective free will and
destroy another nation. Similarly, the religious ego of a particular religion can
destroy another religion. The cultural ego of a culture can destroy another culture
and one community ego can destroy another community. The male ego can
destroy the female and female ego can destroy the male.
Any mass movement is a collective ego. You can identify with all females and a
collective female ego results. Students joining together is another example of a
collective ego. A collective ego is also seen in the pursuit of the murderer of a
police man. The entire police force develops one ego, collective ego, and pursues
the person who committed the murder.
The gods and demons, the Pandavas and Dhartarastras in the bhagavadgita also
represent the collective ego. A collective ego can be for good or bad. This, then,
is what we mean by good and evil.

Ninaipadhellam Nadandhuvitaal - Nice Song

 நினைப்பதெல்லாம் நடந்து விட்டால் தெய்வம் ஏதுமில்லை,
 நடந்ததையே நினைத்திருந்தால் அமைதி என்றுமில்லை,
 முடிந்த கதை தொடர்வதில்லை இறைவன் ஏட்டினிலே,
 தொடர்ந்த கதை முடிவதில்லை மனிதன் வீட்டினிலே

 (நினைப்பதெல்லாம்...)

 ஆயிரம் வாசல் இதயம் அதில் ஆயிரம் எண்ணங்கள் உதயம்,
 யாரோ வருவார் யாரோ இருப்பார் வருவதும் போவதும் தெரியாது,
 ஒருவர் மட்டும் குடியிருந்தால் துன்பம் ஏதுமில்லை,
 ஒன்றிருக்க ஒன்று வந்தால் என்றும் அமைதியில்லை

(நினைப்பதெல்லாம்...)

எங்கே வாழ்க்கை தொடங்கும் அது எங்கே எவ்விதம் முடியும்,
இதுதான் பாதை இதுதான் பயணம் என்பது யாருக்கும் தெரியாது,
பாதையெல்லாம் மாறி வரும் பயணம் முடிந்துவிடும்,
மாறுவதைப் புரிந்து கொண்டால் மயக்கம் தெளிந்து விடும்

(நினைப்பதெல்லாம்...)


                                                                                           கவிஞர் கண்ணதாசன்

APPLE - SOME INFO

#APPLE FOR GOOD #HEALTH

· Apple is a rich source of flavonoid and polyphenols both are powerful antioxidant.

· Study shown that by eating 100g of apple can give an antioxidant effect that equal to taking about1,500mg of vitamin C.

· Apple contain a large amount of minerals and vitamins that can strengthen the blood.

· Apple contain malic acid and tartaric acid, that can help prevent disturbances of the liver and digestion.

· Apple cider vinegar when used as beverage can help to prevent the formation of kidney stone.

· The skin of Apple contain pectin that can help remove toxic substances from the system by supplying galacturonic acid.Pectin helps prevent protein matter in the intestine from spoiling.

· Eating an apple daily can lower cholesterol and reduce skin diseases.

#Apples have been recommended for : Obesity, Headache, Arthritis, Bronchial asthma, Inflammation of the bladder, Gonorrhea, Anemia, Tuberculosis, Neuritis, Insomnia, Catarrh, Gallbladder stones, Worms, Halithosis, Pyorrhea

Nutritive Values : Per 100 grams

· Vitamin A : 900 I.U.

· Vitamin B : Thiamine .07 mg.;

· Vitamin C : 5 mg.

· Vitamin G : Amount uncertain

· Calcium : 6 mg.

· Iron : 3 mg.

· Phosphorus : 10 mg.

· Potassium : 130 mg.

· Carbohydrates : 14.9 gm.

· Calories : 58

Apples may help lower the risk of breast and colon cancer. Research at the University of Ulster suggests that high levels of apple phenols, which work as potent antioxidants, may have a beneficial effect on colon cancer cells. “Our results indicate that a crude extract of apple phenolics can protect against DNA damage,” say researchers. Brains at Cornell University, USA, found that in animals, apples prevented mammary cancers. The doses given were, they say, comparable to human consumption of one, three and six apples a day. “Consumption of apples may be an effective strategy for cancer protection,”

The use :

1. For people who suffer from gout and rheumatism, eat apple regularly because it will aid healing

2. Eating 2 apples a day will reduce your cholesterol level up to 10 %

3. Drinking an apple juice, 3 times a day, is said to prevent virus from settling in the body.

4. Another benefit of apple is for those who have problem with their stomach. If you have problem with indigestion, eat apples before meals.

5. Grated apple, when mixed with live yogurt may be helpful in cases of diarrhea.

#Apple Some Tips :

1) Never buy apples that have not been kept cold since they can be over-ripe in a few days.

2) Apples should be hard. If you can dent an apple with your finger, DO NOT BUY IT.

3) Keep your apples refrigerated. If not, it will decay fast.

4) To prevent browning, rub the cut surfaces with a mixture of lemon juice and water.

5) Canadian researchers analyzing eight popular varieties found that the old standby, Red Delicious, and an apple called Northern Spy contain more disease-fighting antioxidants in their skin and flesh than any other studied. In English this means red apples are better than other apples.

CAUTION : To get the most out of an apple, you should eat the skin as well. Sadly, you may want to peel your apple and throw away the skin. Why ? First, because apple is one of those fruits that contain the highest pesticides residues. Second, because most apples are waxed to give it a beautiful shine. Not only will you eat the wax, you would also eat the pesticides trapped by the wax.
Children loves apples. The average 1- to 2-year-old’s weight-adjusted apple consumption is four times that of the average person. So, they are the most unfortunate ones who will eat more pesticides. Yes, pesticides can penetrate the skin and may be absorbed by the plant itself. Peeling do not eliminate pesticide residues, however they do reduce them.


FYI , Above Infos collected from WWW.

TONGUE DISEASES & REMEDIES

Diseases of the Tongue according to Ayurveda:

According to ayurveda the diseases of the tongue have been included in the mouth. There are six types of tongue diseases according to Ayurveda.

1. Vataj
2. Pittaj
3. Kaphaj
4. Alas
5. Adhijeebh
6. Upjeebh

Main symptoms:

• In the vataj type, the tongue cracks, which does not give any type of taste. The tongue becomes rough like the vegetable leaf.
• In the second type the tongue becomes yellow in color with burning sensation. Reddish colored spikes appear on the tongue.
• In the third type the tongue becomes heavy and fleshy spikes appear on it.
• In the fourth type the disease is caused due to the doshas of kapha and blood. There is severe swelling under the tongue and when the disease increases then pus is formed in the base of the tongue and blocked. That means the tongue does not move nor rotates. When the patient tries to rotate it severe pain is experienced.
• In another type of tongue problem caused due to blood and kapha there is swelling on the upper side of the tongue, it rips and becomes somewhat incurable.
• In the sixth type of mouth ulcer the tongue bends and gets swollen due the dosha of kapha and blood. A lot of saliva is formed in the mouth with itching and burning sensation. The patient does not have the taste of anything.

If we look at the causes along with the symptoms we can know that this disease is caused due to wrong eating habits. Worms are created in the stomach, which aggravate the disease. The cause for mouth ulcers and diseases of the tongue are similar. According to western scientists, this disease is caused due to hookworm. If this worm is removed with the help of some medicine then the disease of the tongue can be cured easily.

In case of chronic disorder of the bowels the children tend to get diseases of the tongue. If the bowel disorder is cured, the tongue disease gets cured on its own. In the case of Erithima migrans disease the tongue bends. There are reddish spots formed on the upper layer of the tongue, which keep on changing places. These types of spots are also seen in a few types of fever. The spikes in the tongue have a darkish tan and appear to be black in color. Those who use Hukka normally have black tongue but they do not have any disease and hence do not require any medication. In the disease called microglacia the tongue becomes thick and is a hereditary problem. It also does not require any treatment. Such children should be given thyroid tablets so that the thickness of the tongue reduces to some extent. In some children the tongue protrudes out and they have the habit to rotate it, this also makes their tongue thick.

Tongue related problems also arise due to fever caused due to tridoshas. The tongue becomes rough and contains spikes but its cure depends on the basic diseases. If the fever is not cured then the tongue related disease also doe not get cured. In some cases the chin becomes small and the tongue becomes thick.

In this case the tongue can move towards the respiratory pipe and block its path. At this stage surgery proves to be helpful. Children who have a long tongue, find difficulty while drinking milk. They should be faced upside down and made to drink milk this way. The child is able to drink milk easily like this.

Remedies for Tongue Diseases:

• In case of disease caused due to vata dosha, shilvana lep proves to be beneficial.
• In case of pitta-generated disease where spikes appear on the tongue, rub them with rough things like cabbage leaves, etc., and then remove the blood, rinse the mouth with lemon water.
• In the case of disease generated due to kapha, apply pilyadigana churna with honey after removing the blood.
• When thorns appear on the tongue, grind rapeseeds and rock salt and apply it on the tongue, also drink the juice of sespedula leaves, neem bark, brinjal and Yavakshar.
• Mix mankind bhasma, rock salt and rapeseed oil and rub on the tongue.
• Add thuhar milk with some acidic things like lemon, etc., and rub it on the tongue.
• In case of thickness of the tongue, do lekhan procedure and pratisarana with acidic substance, and then do shirovechan, gandoop dharan and nasya etc.
• Mix dry ginger, black pepper, pippali, yavakshar, harad and chitrak root powder and rub it on the tongue or rub the oil extracted from these things to cure this disease.
• Rub the Biroja, ral, guggul, and devdaru and moolhati churna on the tongue if the disease is generated due to vata dosha.
• Rub sweet substances if it is due to pitta dosha. Remove the polluted blood and do gandoop with sweet substances.
• Pippali churna is beneficial in case of tongue disease caused due to kapha dosha. Mix honey in this powder and drink it, mix rapeseed and rock salt in hot water and rinse the mouth with this water.
• Grind the makhanas and sprinkle the powder on the tongue.
• Mix bhimseni camphor and sugar candy and sprinkle on the tongue or mix boric acid in glycerin and apply it on the tongue. If boric acid is not available, grind suhaga and apply it on the tongue with honey

FYI, Above Details are collected from Web.

DEAR HONEY....

All of you are well aware of honey. It has been considered very beneficial and auspicious in mythology, ayurveda and botanical science. Honey is used as medicine as well as for worship of God. One of the five elements used for preparing 'Panchamrita' (a sacred drink prepared with milk, curd, ghee, sugar and honey) is honey. Honey is included in all auspicious ceremonies and has the power of curing all diseases. It makes us sweet both internally and externally.

Judging the Quality of Honey

When we purchase honey, we are not sure whether it is pure or impure. There are few simple tricks, with which we can clearly judge its quality.

• Pure honey pours down in the shape of a serpent whereas the impure honey falls flat on the plate. Apply a little honey on a stick and light it on fire, if it starts burning consider it to be pure.
• Pure honey is transparent. A dog will not lick it. Pure honey has a good smell. It melts in heat and frosts in cold season.

Which regions produce the best honey? Honey found in Kashmir and Himachal is of the best quality and is very beneficial. It gives instant relief in the case of eye problems. The quality of honey found in these regions is extremely good because it is obtained from the lotus flowers grown in the lakes of Kashmir. This type of honey containing a lot of medicinal values is not found in any other place.

Medicinal Effects of Pure Honey

New honey removes phlegm and is a purgative. One or two year old honey reduces fat and is good for digestion.

Honey gives strength and power to the intestines. Regular consumption of honey stops the accumulation of toxic elements in the intestines and also kills worms. It is equally beneficial for chronic diseases, chronic constipation, dysentery and diarrhea.

Honey removes phlegm accumulated in the lungs. It gives relief to the patients of asthma and cough. Honey is also beneficial in cases of tuberculosis. It keeps the mind fresh and healthy. It is especially beneficial for those who do more mental work. Honey increases the humors of the body. Consumption of honey is good for strengthening the sperm, physical strength and gives good shape to the body. Soak one almond twice a day, rub it nicely on a grinding stone in the night and keep it in a bowl. Add one spoon of honey and drink it with cold milk without adding any sugar, half an hour before going to bed. This is beneficial for mental strength, masculinity and physical fitness. This medicine should be taken regularly for two months during the winter season. It is extremely beneficial.

Honey cures phlegm disorder. Take half a spoon of honey and half a spoon of ginger juice to get rid of cough. Add onion juice and honey in equal quantity and take this medicine to get rid of accumulated phlegm. Simply licking honey is also good for curing mild cough. Honey also cures skin problems. Honey cures skin diseases and makes the skin healthy. It also kills worms and stops decay.

Honey improves the eyesight. If lotus honey of Kashmir is available, it should be applied in the eyes like kajal (eye liner). This cures all problems related to the eyes and increases the eyesight.

Drink one glass of cold milk added with a few drops of honey before going to bed. Do not add sugar or sugar candy. This reduces physical weakness. This should be taken regularly for two months. It is necessary to brush the teeth after drinking this milk.

Consume honey with fruits like jelly. It is beneficial for students, doctors, lawyers, intellectual people, elderly persons, pregnant women and children.

 Take one glass of clean water with two spoons of honey in the morning before passing bowels. This gradually reduces the fat accumulated in the body. This should be taken regularly for two months. This is beneficial for reducing fat and increases the shine of the body.

Honey has medicinal values; it takes the qualities of the substance which is added to it. This is the special quality of honey. This is the main reason for calling it 'Yogvahi' (medium for mixing medicines).

What should be the quantity when consuming honey?

In the beginning honey should be consumed only in small quantities. Give four to five drops to an infant, half a spoon to young children and one spoon to old people. Increase this quantity gradually and then it can be taken four times a day. Honey can be taken with chapattis, fruits, fruit juice, or almonds. Consume it for two months regularly and discontinue for a month. One can start taking honey after a gap of one month. One or two spoons of honey should be taken everyday.

Useful Tips

Do not take honey with hot food or in the summer season because it is not suitable in hot weather and hot conditions.

Honey creates negative effects when taken in hot conditions.

Honey causes adverse effects when consumed with hot fluids.

Honey turns into poison when it is heated. Honey is equal to poison when it is taken with hot conditions, hot weather or hot food. According to Ayurveda one should not take honey with hot milk, hot water and in hot weather.

There is no benefit if honey and ghee are mixed with equal quantities and taken (they counter each other). In case of need, mix one part of ghee with three or four parts of honey.

Consuming honey in excess quantity is not good for health. It is also advised not to take honey with sugar candy, jaggery, jackfruit, fish, egg, meat, etc. Do not consume honey continuously for several months (pause for one month in between). This can cause a disease called 'Amajirg'.

Actually, above Informations are collected From Web.

And, One Table spoon of Honey gives Energy equivalent to One Full Egg.Honey gives Health & Complexion to Skin,It is good for both Mental & Physical Strength and provides Stamina to our body.It gives resistant power against diseases.Honey is the Veg.Food Product gifted to us by Mother Nature.
Finally,Good & Divine Thoughts are Honey Thoughts which gives Healthy,Blissful  & Beautiful Mind.

TO THINK AND PRACTICE

To Think and Practice what ?. To Think about God,the Truth and practicing spirituality,divinity in life.Though our Swarupam is Divine,Our mind lost it's Patience,capacity due to the living habit which includes our thought,action and speech.Most of us are refusing to believe Events that happened in the Puranas,Epics and not having faith on the Messages revealed by them,Even though they were true which describes about the TRUTH.So many reasons behind this non-belief.The Good messages are not rightly and fully delivered to the childrens either by parents or Teachers of current and past generations.If parents itself don't know,then how will the child understand and Believe.I have the confident that the children could understand.Any thing that is rightly and properly delivered,Good messages will be viewed by it's own,precious value.The Gurukula Educational system done this right work in earlier generations.After there is a break in Gurukula Educational System,the way and destination is going some where else.

It is our right to know,if there is no body to deliver right,good, and, precious messages which is in puranas,epics,upanishad and sasthras.we should try to know it.Surely God will help through some noble souls.Prayer is the strongest and powerful way to show the right path,because the hand that helps us, is the hand of God.So many obstacle will come in Life.From the Thought and to this world every thing may act as obstacle.But with the help of God,We can make all those troubling factors in favor to us.Some used to say, 'Dhevaram,Thiruvasagam and Bharathiar songs' are just for thinking and Talking alone,but won't help in practical life.I agree, it will be apt for those who are not trying,not knowing right path,filled with ignorance and those who not having belief..etc.But So many noble souls tried such a Divine and Holy life which results in eternal bliss before us.Why shouldn't we try those paths.Without believing,trying and practicing, how can we say like that ?.We don't want to put a new road for that.We just need to travel along the path already shown by noble souls who achieved the real Goal of Life.If don't know go and search them,ask the help of God.He is ready to Help to the Sincere and Dharmic prayers.Think Good,Speak Good and Implement it in Action.We will face many,many and many failures.Don't get discourage.One day or another day we will surely attain it.Ignore the Concept and advice of Ignorant people with out hate on them.Those people won't develop themselves in the right path and also won't allow the person going in the right path.Just Ignore their stupid advices which lead to hell.Seek the Help of God.Only He/She WILL Save us.

So What to Do ? Hear the Lyrics in the Song " Sindhanai Sei Maname "

! OM NAMA SHIVAYA !

EPIC AND PURANA - DIFFERENCE

Epics and Puranas are not just a Story.It was the History.which was really happened in the past.

The Life History of Characters that was found in the Epic were true and the Epic was written when the Characters of that Epic were alive.

Ramayana and Mahabharatha were two great epics which was written by Sage Valmiki and Sage Vyasa when the characters of these Epics were alive.

And regarding Puranas,the life history of characters found in Puranas were true and it was written after the history happened.Eighteen Puranas were written by Sage Vyasa right after all the incident took place at various periods and place.

LUST

Lust - is the First & Biggest Enemy for every individual in the World.

Lust on any thing will result in Misery. Lust first gives Sweet then Poison.

How Lust Originated in us ?.

I heard the answer for this in one of the Spiritual Discourse.

" It starts from Thinking an Object, Meditating [Constant and Continous thinking] that object,which make us to feel an attachment on that object,Soon it will turn into Desire and the Strong Desire in to Lust "

Lust starts its Journey as a child from thinking.as a result of continous thinking it attain it's adultary stage.

In this post I doesn't mean Sexual Lust alone,but also, lust on any thing like place,person,thing.

Thinking unnecassarily about a particular thing/person/place will make a change inside us and will make an attachment on that particular thing/person/place with out knowing to ourself.Thinking lead to continous thinking [Meditation],that creates an attachment,that attachment evolve to become a desire and that desire will took the rigid form of Lust.We can avoid lust in it's initial stage.What to do ? Stop thinking unnecassarily about any particular thing/person/place.Only it is possible to avoid or delete Lust in it's initial stage.And it is certainly not possible to cut,delete or avoid lust in it's final / adultary stage.

Effect Of Lust : Lust has strong power to block our reasoning ability,mental awareness and even may make us to forget even the known knowledge of us.
When there is an obstacle occurs in the path of Lust it turns in to Anger.Lust is the root of anger.When anger increases it may cause any dangerous effect on others as well on ourself too.

Thinking ---> Continous Thinking ------> Attachment / Affection -----> Desire ------> LUST,
Lust with Obstacle ------> Anger --------> Produces Dangerous and Harmful Effect.

So Avoid Danger at the Initial Stage itself.Stop Thinking Unneccessarily.

Even Entertainment starts from Thinking.First we start thinking/doing an action as an entertainment.When days passes it will be our continous thought.Then above said further process will happen with out our knowledge similar like our physical growth.our body grow from infant to adultary but could we watch it ? we can't see it's growth frame by frame.Lust is similar to this growth.

High awareness is essential in the stream of thoughts.

Food habits also plays a vital role in this. Non-Veg Food items including Garlic and Onion stimulates thoughts and channelize the stream of thoughts towards Lust.So Avoid Non-Veg.

Lust & Anger are Twins.If One occurs other will come along with the previous one.Thinking /good thoughts,Divine and performing Good action ,Divine actions with Divine thoughts will help very much in eradicating Lust from the root.That is why Noble souls will do the action of Reading Spiritual Books,Thinking about Good concepts,following good principles,Performing Pooja,Going Yatra to pilgrimage,Listening to the discourses of Sadhus,Mahaan and Sages.These will develop Good qualities in us and will help us in avoiding Lust and will make us to live in a Peaceful and in Blissful state.

I hope this post may be helpful.because,when the process of a mechanism is known it will be very useful to manipulate.